Hi, I'm DrDeb and I'm Here to Help You
Save Your Marriage and Help Your Children

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Do you need marriage counseling or marriage advice because your relationship is in trouble? Are your children acting out and you could use parenting help? There's a very, very high likelihood that verbal or emotional abuse is at the root of these problems--even if it's not apparent to you.

Why do I say that?

Because if you or your spouse grew up with mental or psychological abuse -- even if it was subtle -- then you are hurting from the childhood abuse in your family. Possibly, as a result, your husband or wife is verbally or emotionally abusive to you or your children right now. With few exceptions emotional or verbal abuse is at the root of current marital and relationship conflicts and parenting dilemmas.

I will help you!

I will help you heal and give you advanced techniques to end the abuse and save your marriage. You can even fall in love again! You will learn great parenting skills and even be able to heal your relationship with your own parents. I go well beyond anger management to helping abusers become kind, sensitive, caring people and empowering abuse victims to become strong and clear about recognizing and stopping abuse. Yes--this is really possible.

I am a Marriage & Family Therapist--a field that applies to only 12% of all therapists. Moreover, my specialty is recovering from and ending emotional, verbal, psychological, or mental abuse through

treatment for old pain
tips to recognize the warning signs and red flags of abuse
learning how to respect each other
undoing your programming so that you will respect and love yourself
using the relaxation response when you need it most
finding out what you want for yourself
empowerment to get what you want in your relationships
teaching your children to respect you, each other, and themselves
breaking the cycle of abuse once and for all
coping with the abuse while your partner changes
creating boundaries with parents and others
taking control of your life
getting true intimacy
loving living

DrDeb, how in the world can you accomplish all that?

I'll start by telling you how I don't accomplish it: I don't take sides. I'm on the side of the relationship. I want you BOTH to be happy. That's my goal. I see you both as important and in need of my full attention and concern. To learn more about my techniques and philosophy read The Secret Marriage Killer: Eradicating Verbal and Emotional Abuse and How to Get Your Kids to WANT to Do What YOU Want Them to.

Here's what other people have to say...

My fiancee and I got married 2-3 months ago. Everything's gone very well. I thought you helped her tremndously with her individual issues. We're content and happy and very blessed."--FLORIDA

I am half way through your book and it is helping me to realize things that I would have looked over or thought of as "What's the big deal?" I am not a big fan of therapists. I always felt that they choose sides and never truly understood what you were trying to convey. One thing I can say is your book does not do this and I am actually able to reflect over my past and recall times when I should have apologized for my mouth rather than make excuses for it.

My husband moved back in and I attribute his changes to you, DrDeb. He's not yelling any more. Before, he would send people to h-ll. He's not doing this any more.

FLORIDA

“DrDeb, you were helpful with your insights and your sense of understanding.”

- FLORIDA

“You’re very, very intuitive. You’ve done more in two conversations than another therapist can do in two months.”

- MICHIGAN

Downloaded and have already read everthing once. Awesome stuff here. Really opened my eyes.--A man

Read about the ending verbal abuse book

Read about the parenting book

Hi, I'm DrDeb and I'm Here to Help You Save Your Marriage and Help Your Children

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Hi, I'm DrDeb and I'm Here to Help You
Save Your Marriage and Help Your Children

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